Saturday, June 18, 2016

Family Vacation 2016 - Wildwood, New Jersey




We just got home last night from our week at the beach.  We really had such a wonderful time!  For a while we weren't sure if Gary would get to come or not with his knee, but he did and Lyla and I were very happy to have him there, even if he wasn't able to do everything with us.  He was still there and that was important.

We had never been to Wildwood and I didn't know anyone else who vacations there so we were sort of flying blind.  We had to do a lot of trial and error and learn from experience for next time we go (because we are planning to go back)!

The Drive

I'm used to driving to Myrtle Beach, this was so much better!  I don't know why we would want to drive that far when you can get to a beach in close to half the travel time!  I drove the whole way down and Gary drove back.  The worst part is that we went right through Philadelphia, including a four lane highway, but luckily it was Sunday when I was driving so it wasn't awful.




Lyla did great in the car!  Thank goodness for the portable dvd player!  On the way home she passed out when we were 4 miles from the exit....




The Hotel

We stayed at the Aqua Beach Hotel and it was perfect for us!  We paid a little more for a room that had a small kitchen in it and I think that saved us a TON OF MONEY.  It had a full size refrigerator, coffee maker, microwave, cook top, toaster, pots & pans... We took basic food for breakfast and lunch, but we really could have taken a lot more.  Now we know.  AND they have gas grills by the pool that guests are welcome to use.  Didn't know that, but we could have taken things to grill for dinner.













The location of the hotel was also great.  You couldn't be any closer to the beach.  And the hotel had beach chairs, umbrellas and boogie boards that guests were able to use.  It was also at the very end of the boardwalk so there were plenty of activities in walking distance.

I really loved the set up of the pool too.  It had a 1 foot deep area for little ones, then a fence, then it went from 3 foot to 4 foot to 5 foot.  The pool was shaped in an L around the hot tub.  It was perfect because Lyla wanted to be in the pool and I wanted to be in the hot tub.  And we were able to do that.  I could see her the entire time and I was right there in case she had any problems I could have jumped out and been right there in seconds.  They also supplied all kinds of pool toys and balls for the guests to use in the pool.  And they played great music around the pool all day long!



















One other really neat feature of the hotel was the rooftop deck that all all sorts of lounge chairs and hammocks to relax and look over the beach and ocean.  Lyla referred to them as the "hamps" all week.  We don't know why... lol








So we gave the hotel two thumbs up!  The staff was all great, we had zero complaints!

The Restaurants

It took us eating a lot of ice cream and until the very last night to find the "good" ice cream!  It was at Sea Shell ice cream.  It was the BEST we had and the cheapest!




There are a lot of diners there, which is fun, but I'm over sandwiches and fries... We didn't really have any great meals to be super excited about.  We went out to breakfast one morning and it was ok.  I think next time I will just bring more food to eat at the hotel and spend that money on other things.  We pretty much at sandwiches and pizza all week.






Activities

I was so excited to take Lyla on this dolphin cruise.  Well we left the hotel at the time I wanted to get there, then I turned the wrong way and had to take a 16 mile detour..... I thought for sure the boat was going to leave without us.  But we made it.  It was ok... I won't do it again.  Lyla was over it pretty quick.  As soon as we put our cameras away tons of dolphins came... figures.  Then the next day we saw dolphins right along the beach, we could have just done that for free!




















We played mini golf one night.  That was fun!  The golf course we picked was cute.  They had a few really easy holes that kept it fun and not so hard that Lyla wanted to quit.








The boardwalk was really fun!  There are all sorts of things to do (and things to waste money on).  We let Lyla do some rides one afternoon.  And we got her hair wrapped the last day.  They had a place with old arcade games that Gary was really excited about.  There is this little train thing called the Tram Car that we rode.  It takes you from one end of the boardwalk to the other and you can get on and off.  That was helpful with Gary's knee.















The Beach

There were some things at Wildwood beach that I haven't seen at other beaches that I really liked!  The had a wooden sidewalk that took you down closer to the water.  It was much easier than walking in the sand the whole way!  And they had porta johns on the beach, which doesn't look real nice, BUT its great when you have to pee and you don't have to do it in the ocean or go all the way back to your hotel!



































Lyla and I found all sorts of seashells.  She loved searching for them!  And then we would sit at the room and sort through them and get rid of any broken ones.  She also loved playing in the sand and building sandcastles and a sandman (snowman made out of sand).



The Weather

I booked our vacation for this past week because it wasn't in the peak season yet, so the costs were still lower.  It was a roll of the dice what kind of weather we would have got.  The day we got there it was close to 90, I wish that had been the case all week, but it wasn't.  We had cooler weather and some rain and some really windy days.  We made the best of it.  Next time we may try to find a good price a little later in the summer just for it to be warmer.

All in all we had a really great week!  We spent family time together and made some wonderful memories.  And THAT is what vacation is all about!  Now... back to reality.  :(





Friday, June 10, 2016

Five Things Friday - Reflecting on Lyla's Year at Kindergarten



Back in August I did a Five Things Friday post about Reasons I wished Lyla wasn't starting kindergarten.

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Today I want to look back on the things I was worried about and tell if you now I think they were justified or not!

1.  The School Bus
Her riding the bus wasn't awful.... it also wasn't great and I still don't love it.  Their bus is crowded and at one point she was sitting three to a seat.  And the older kids weren't always nice to her.  There was a lot of drama over the year surrounding the school bus and her begging me to take her to school.  I still wish there was a feasible way for me to do that, but I can't start work at 9:00 so it just isn't going to happen.

2.  Homework
"Maybe not this year, but soon, we will have to have time for homework every night."  LOL
Boy I had NO CLUE what we were getting into!!  She had a homework sheet sent home every Monday that was supposed to be done three times then sent back in by Friday.  Plus flash cards.  Plus a couple projects.....  It was crazy!  BUT she has learned SO MUCH already!  Lyla can read now.  She can count to 100.  She can add and subtract.  Its truly amazing!

3.  Lyla Growing Up
This was spot on.  She has grown and changed so much over the last year.  Mostly for the good.  But its still sad when I think that she isn't my little baby anymore.  She is very independent and she has her own personality and her own opinions on everything now.  Its fun but I am still broken hearted when I watch videos of her from a few years ago.  I wish there was some way to let them grow up and still be able to hang on to that time just a little bit longer.

4.  Making New Friends
So far we have lucked out on this.  Lyla made some new friends at school and I've met some of the moms and so far everyone seems pretty likeable!  I've talked to some and we are planning to get the girls together this summer to play.  So maybe I shouldn't have worried about this quite so much!

5.  Packing Lunches
Well, we packed lunches for a couple of weeks then I asked Lyla if she would like to try buying lunch one day... and we never looked back!  $2.50 a day for a lunch is more than fair when I don't have to pack it every night! 

All in all her first year at school went really well.  We love Miss Eck (her kindergarten teacher) and everyone else we have met at her school has been great.  Its been an adjustment but we've been taking it in stride and it hasn't been all that bad.  That being said, I think I'm more excited about school being out for the summer than she is!