As some of you may or may not have noticed, I unfriended almost my entire list of friends on facebook. I am left with 29 friends and I have never been happier! If you are not one of the 29, I ask you to please not take offense. I would like to explain so there aren't hurt feelings. And if you are someone who never signed up for facebook, you may or may not understand. Feel free to quit reading the post at any time! :)
I signed up for facebook a
really long time ago. When I first signed up I thought it was so cool to reconnect with people from high school or people that I used to work with or family that lives far away. And before you know it you are friends with everyone! It gets a little out of control.
So as years passed and my life changed and I had Lyla, it was great being able to share special moments with everyone I knew by making one simple post. "Lyla took her first step!" Done! Now everybody knows and nobody feels left out! But then I got to thinking, EVERYONE knows... everyone I have ever met now knows everything my daughter has done in her first year of life. And I know so many things about people who I haven't actually spoken to in over 10 years. Things I don't feel like I should really know about them.
Another reason I got rid of a bunch of "friends" - I get annoyed very easily. Its just part of my personality that I have just learned to accept! But I will get on and look at some people's pictures or comments and I am just instantly annoyed. I decided I need less triggers to annoy me - so poof - I got rid of everyone!
Another group of people I unfriended were my little cousins, friends daughters, anyone who is in either high school or college. I love them all and I did all the things they are doing. But I don't want to know about, let alone see pictures from their crazy weekends! #1, I'm jealous that it isn't me having those weekends anymore! #2, it makes me feel awkward when I talk to their parents! I'm at a weird in between age where I'm not young and cool anymore but I'm not as old as their parents yet... I don't know, its a weird situation!
At the end of the day, it leaves me with 29 facebook friends. These people are still there because they are my best friends for starters. A few of them that is the only way we talk a lot of the time. I got rid of extended family that I know read my blog and I can keep them updated that way. And if they don't, I see them on a regular basis. It wasn't a "I like you and I don't like you" kind of decision. It was more a "are we benefiting by me keeping you on here, if yes, then you stay, if not then you didn't."
Ok, I'm done with this rant. I love you all and if your feelings are hurt that you are no longer my "facebook friend" then I think we have a lot more issues to deal with other than facebook.
And for the record, Gary thinks I'm insane and I have too much time on my hands to worry about such things. And that's just fine so he can keep as many facebook friends as her chooses! That is why we have separate accounts! ;)